You've
probably ended a deep relationship with someone who at first
may have seemed like your perfect soul mate but after a time
you started to realize that the relationship is just
incompatible. This self-hypnosis program is your solution
for living a new free life with a clear fresh mind.
Over time
our inner brain, the subconscious mind has been associating
images, smells, touch, sounds, tastes, of a particular
person, and placing them in a "box" with the label "amazing,
passionate, fantastic, lovely," and all sorts of beautiful
feelings. When the relationship is over and you want to
forget someone, we come across this problem. We have to
disassociate these memories, and change them into
reality.
With the
help of self hypnosis you can change those memories and
relabel the "box" to something unimportant, and boring, so
that in your future if you see a particular photo of your ex
partner, then your subconscious mind will react calmly
without triggering the alarm of strong passion.
Regenerate
your old annoying thoughts
Your heart
has been overworked with too much bad love, and caught up in
a tangle of complicated emotions from your past
relationship. You'll be excited about your future,
ambitious, and positive, making new plans, and be totally
convinced that you are in control, and dominating your
thoughts.
Forget
the relationship
You should
avoid making comparisons between the new people you go out
with and your ex, because it's unfair and doesn't help the
healing process. Each relationship is unique and only with
time and increased confidence you'll achieve a shared
experience, full of complicities, love, and tenderness,
which will grow stronger each day.
How
to get someone off your mind
How can
I forget someone like my ex girlfriend? I
recommend that you try to stop thinking about what was lost
and try to focus your thoughts on the new possibilities open
to you. Now you don't have a commitment, so you can enjoy
freedom and excitement to fall in love with whoever crosses
your path, and be able to conquer your heart. You may throw
out everything that can trigger a memory, such as gifts,
photos, numbers, poems, letters, or hide them away using a
lock, and give the key to a friend.
Try to
escape comparisons and the similarities and enjoy the
present.
Surround
yourself with people who love you. Don't get pampered by
your family and good friends. Explain your sorrows, but also
don't let yourself fall into self-pity and paralysis, and
always remember that the end of an era always coincides with
the beginning of another. Get started with a new heart, a
new positive outlook.
Forgetting
is easy with self-hypnosis because the subconscious mind can
take away the importance. We all have saved images in our
memory of our ex partners. One or more are framed in our
memory with an association of tenderness or hate, desire or
contempt which will slowly fade away. The former thoughts of
our ex partner sometimes appear in our dreams, and even seem
to interfere in the new relationships that we enter. When
you find it difficult to overcome a relationship, when you
can't seem to get someone off your mind, you can turn
against it. Stop thinking about what was lost and try to
focus your thoughts on the new possibilities open to you. A
failed romance means that you are now free and available to
start living your new adventure.
Relationships
usually have a start and a finish and very rarely do we find
a couple that live together for their whole life. It's so
totally normal to pass on to the the next level and start a
new better life with a new interesting lovely partner. Your
experience has shown you what made your past relationship
become difficult and uncomfortable, and so you can use that
experience and knowledge to avoid the same mistakes. Certain
people are just not compatible and we must avoid these type
of negative influences. When hunting for a new partner you
must now take in mind you are stronger and have learned to
make the right balance between your heart and your common
sense. Your next step is to take time to think about exactly
what you want in your next partner, and maybe the time is
way ahead in the future or maybe tomorrow, but its so good
to be prepared. Your partner should make you feel happy,
make you laugh, be trusting and sincere, and your partner
should be on your side. You should try to make yourself so
independant that you will never have to rely on anybody
else, and this way the only things you need to share is
happy or exciting moments. You should take some time to
analyze any negative aspects of yourself that may contribute
to a failed relationship so that you can work on correcting
them.
The
advantages of using hypnosis ?
She was not my type and the relationship is impossible, but
she's always on my mind?
Who hasn't
suffered with love and relationships? The worst is that
these feelings can last months or years, suffering with a
broken heart. But the good news is that there is an easy
escape without any type of tablets or medicine:
self-hypnosis.
Hypnotherapy
is not just a tool for quitting smoking or for getting to
sleep but lately is a very popular modern effective method
for beginning a new life without having to suffer with those
automatic negative thoughts of your ex girlfriend/ ex
boyfriend. We can modify/ eliminate those negative thoughts
and turn them into positive motivation and happiness.
The most
effective treatment is by using the power of a trance to
enter our subconscious mind and then listen to certain
positive affirmations and hypnotic tricks such as
visualization to overcome these obstacles.